Anna Haynes

Counselling, Therapy and Coaching IN Nottingham & Online

Welcome

A confidential space to explore the thoughts, feelings and challenges in your life

About Me


A trauma-informed relational and somatic therapist for women experiencing emotional and physiological dysregulation linked to long-standing patterns and complex trauma and coping

strategies. You might find yourself overthinking what you’ve said or done, giving a lot in relationships but not always receiving the same in return, or repeating dynamics that leave you feeling drained, anxious, or disconnected from yourself.

Often, the women I work with are capable and insightful, but still feel that something deeper isn’t settling or shifting.

Many of my clients have experienced complex or long-standing trauma, and notice that this can show up not only emotionally, but physically — through anxiety attacks, chronic tension, digestive issues, skin flare-ups, fatigue, or moments where the body feels overwhelmed, shut down, or disconnected. These responses can feel confusing, especially when they don’t seem to match what is happening externally.

Some clients also notice patterns of relying on coping strategies such as alcohol to manage emotional overwhelm or to take the edge off difficult internal states.

In our work together, we approach this with curiosity and compassion, exploring what these strategies may have been helping you to manage, and how you might begin to find alternative ways of supporting yourself.

My approach is grounded in Gestalt therapy, which focuses on

present-moment awareness and how your patterns are actively showing up in your life as you live it. Rather than only talking about experiences, we pay attention to what is happening in your thoughts, emotions, and body in real time. This helps create deeper awareness and opens up the possibility of change

that feels embodied and sustainable.

Anna Haynes, providing Counselling, Therapy and Coaching in Nottingham & Online

I have an international background that has given me a more cosmopolitan view of the world; a view that recognises the value of differences, but also the prejudices that can come with that.

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Counselling

WHY?

Why should you go to therapy?

Below you find the areas I specialise in, through a series of diplomas and certificates, validated by the number of clients who have presented with these issues in my practice


  1. Workplace bullying and harassment
  2. Childhood abuse - physical or emotional
  3. Issues of self confidence in women aged 18-40
  4. Alcoholic parents
  5. Sexual, emotional or verbal abuse



How?

How is Gestalt different?


  • Integrates mind, body and emotions
  • Deconstructs patterns of behaviour which no longer serve you
  • Dialogue over diagnosis
  • Brings awareness to patterns and polarities
  • Empowers self responsibility, not blame
  • Your experience takes the lead
  • You learn through experience, not just insight
  • Values the therapeutic relationship
  • Focuses on the here and now


What?

What will you get if you commit to therapy?

  1. Gain deeper awareness and control over thoughts, emotions and behaviour
  2. Identify and shift limiting patterns
  3. Build emotional resilience and presence
  4. Enhance self-acceptance and personal responsibility
  5. Develop stronger, more authentic relationships
  6. Reclaim a sense of wholeness and agency



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Availability & Fees & Process


Monday-Thursday 16:30 to 20:30 - online only

Saturday 08:00 to 18:00 - face-to-face and online in West Bridgford, Nottingham and Castle Donington, Derbyshire

Potential of same week start if availability matches.

A limited number of morning sessions available on an ad-hoc basis.

Fee £95 for 50 minutes sessions.

Free 15 minutes call to see if we are a good fit.

A limited number of concessionary sessions available for those who are currently facing financial difficulties.


Please fill in the contact form on my website to get in touch.

Location

Face-to-face sessions take place in The Bay Therapy Centre, West Bridgford, Nottingham NG2 5BB which is easily accessible from the surrounding areas such as Edwalton, Carlton, Clifton and Keyworth. I also offer face to face sessions in Castle Donington, Derbyshire

Contact

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.


You can also call me on 07360353983 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.

All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.

Frequently asked questions

What's the difference between counselling and therapy?

Counselling is usually a good way to help with a current problem; something that can be discussed and - hopefully - resolved within a limited number of sessions. Over a certain number of weeks the understanding of the problem improves and away forward becomes clear. Therapy often describes work that goes a bit deeper, towards more substantial life issues and problems having a deeper effect on the client’s life. Therapy often requires a long-term approach, so the number of sessions can be open-ended.

Which option is most suitable depends on the client and the difficulties they are facing. In some cases counselling works well as an ongoing, longer-term option - or therapy can manage to resolve an issue in just a few sessions.

Will everything I say be kept confidential?

Everything that is said within the counselling room is private - this is one of the main ways counselling and therapy differ from talking to a friend or relative. Once you are comfortable with the format of weekly sessions and the safe space they provide, you will find the freedom to speak in confidence is of great value.

Note that there are some situations where you may be a risk to yourself or others, and there the law requires that I notify an authority; in these cases I may not be able to keep total confidentiality. Breaking confidentiality is very rare though, and only happens after the person concerned has been informed.

Can I bring a friend or relative with me?

Usually I am asked this question by people who are nervous about entering into counselling, or when they are looking for support in coming to see a therapist. This anxiety is understandable, but a key aspect of therapy is that you should feel free to talk about any issues you feel are important to you. Having someone else with you who can be connected those issues makes this opening-up more difficult, so for this reason I do not see clients accompanied by friends or family.

How long will I need to have counselling?

How long a period of counselling lasts will vary from person to person and depend on the depth of the issues they are facing. For some people a couple of sessions helps to bring their problems into focus, and they feel ready to move forward; other problems may require more of an open-ended approach.

Before we begin any work we will agree on the number of sessions we’ll undertake, and at the end of that number review our progress. As long as we both agree further therapy will be of benefit to you, sessions can continue.

How long will I have to wait for an appointment?

My aim is to offer a first appointment - known as an initial assessment - within 1-2 weeks. Then we would arrange a set number of counselling sessions to take place at the same time every week, that is convenient for you and where I have availabity. How quickly these sessions can begin will depend on the availabity of that free ‘slot’.


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